Comparison starts earlier than many parents realise. A child looks at a friend and quietly thinks, “She is better than me.” “He has more than me.” “They are smarter.” “I’m not good enough.” These words may sound small, but they carry heavy feelings. They sit quietly in a child’s heart and shape how they see themselves. Over time, these thoughts can grow into insecurity, fear, and self-doubt. Comparison quietly steals joy. It makes children feel less valuable, less confident, and less secure. A child who once laughed freely may become anxious. A child who once tried new things may begin to hold back. Slowly, they start measuring their worth by appearance, achievements, or approval from others. At Sue’s Imaginarium , we believe children were never meant to compare themselves. They were created to grow, to shine, and to walk confidently in who they are — rooted in faith , not competition. This article explains how faith helps children break free from comparison and how parents can gen...
Once upon a time—many seasons after Kito returned the extra cowrie shell—his name carried weight in the village. “Let Kito handle it,” people said. “He will do what is right.” Kito was older now, taller, steadier, and trusted with things far more valuable than groundnut cakes. On Market Days, he helped elders measure grain, counted cloth for travelers, and kept records when traders from faraway places arrived with camels and carts. Trust followed him like a shadow. One year, a great caravan came from the dry lands beyond the hills. Their leader, Baraka , wore a long robe and spoke with confidence. He brought salt, metal tools, and bright dyes—goods the village needed badly. The elders gathered. “Kito,” said Elder Ama, “you will help us manage the trade. Count carefully. Be fair.” Kito bowed. “I will.” The market buzzed louder than ever. Deals were struck, baskets were lifted, cowrie shells clicked like rain on clay. By midday, Baraka pulled Kito aside. “You are known for honesty...