Sue's Imaginarium

Comparison starts earlier than many parents realise. A child looks at a friend and quietly thinks, “She is better than me.” “He has more than me.” “They are smarter.” “I’m not good enough.” These words may sound small, but they carry heavy feelings. They sit quietly in a child’s heart and shape how they see themselves. Over time, these thoughts can grow into insecurity, fear, and self-doubt. Comparison quietly steals joy. It makes children feel less valuable, less confident, and less secure. A child who once laughed freely may become anxious. A child who once tried new things may begin to hold back. Slowly, they start measuring their worth by appearance, achievements, or approval from others. At Sue’s Imaginarium , we believe children were never meant to compare themselves. They were created to grow, to shine, and to walk confidently in who they are — rooted in faith , not competition. This article explains how faith helps children break free from comparison and how parents can gen...

  Every parent has had that moment. Your child asks a question that catches you off guard. “Why do people say this is okay?” “Why do my friends believe that?” “Why does this feel wrong even though everyone is doing it?” Those moments are not interruptions. They are invitations. They are signs that your child is beginning to think, feel, and question beyond surface-level answers. And what they are really asking for is discernment — the ability to tell what is right, what is wise, and what aligns with truth. Spiritual discernment is not something children magically develop with age. It is something that must be taught, modelled, practised, and nurtured intentionally. When children lack discernment, they follow voices instead of values. When they develop discernment, they learn to pause, reflect, and choose wisely — even when no one is watching. What Spiritual Discernment Really Is Spiritual discernment is the ability to recognise truth, identify wisdom, and sense what ali...

Every future is shaped by decisions. Not just the big, dramatic ones—but the quiet, daily choices we make when no one is watching. In character education, we often focus on teaching skills, knowledge, and achievement, but at the core of a meaningful life is something deeper: character . And character is built one decision at a time. The one decision that can redefine your future is this: the decision to live intentionally —to choose values over convenience, growth over comfort, and integrity over shortcuts. This guide explores how intentional decision-making forms character and how parents, educators, and individuals can cultivate this mindset for long-term transformation. 1. Understanding the Power of One Decision A single decision may seem small in the moment, but it carries direction. Much like steering a ship, even a slight change in course can lead to a completely different destination over time. Character education teaches that: Decisions shape habits Habits shape character ...

  The world today offers children many voices to listen to, many images to imitate, and many standards to chase. From social media to school competition, from peer pressure to constant comparison, children are exposed to messages that quietly tell them they are only valuable if they perform well, look right, or fit in. If parents are not intentional, a child’s identity will be shaped by influence instead of truth. This is why Christian confidence is different from worldly confidence. Worldly confidence rises and falls with success, praise, appearance, and acceptance. Confidence rooted in Christ stands firm even when circumstances shake. It produces children who know who they are even when they don’t know everything that is happening in their lives. When a child’s confidence is built on Christ, it cannot be stolen by rejection, failure, or criticism. 1. Understanding What True Confidence Really Is True confidence is not arrogance, loudness, stubborn independence, or pretending t...

  Self-respect is one of the most important qualities a child can develop. It is the foundation of a strong, confident, and emotionally healthy individual. But what exactly is self-respect, why is it so important, and how can we help children cultivate it? Let’s explore these questions step by step. What Is Self-Respect? Self-respect is the value and regard a person holds for themselves. It is a deep understanding that you are worthy of love, kindness, and fairness, simply because you exist. For children, self-respect means recognizing their own feelings, needs, and boundaries as important. It is about treating themselves with the same care and consideration they would give to a friend or family member. Self-respect is different from arrogance or pride. It’s not about thinking you’re better than others—it’s about knowing your worth and standing up for yourself in a healthy way. Children with self-respect understand that their opinions matter, their bodies are their own, and thei...

  Every child is born with questions about who they are, why they exist, and what makes them valuable. In today’s world—where children are constantly exposed to social pressure, comparison, shifting trends, and confusing messages about worth—it’s more important than ever to give them a strong, unshakable foundation. That foundation is identity in Christ . When a child knows who they are in God, they grow with confidence, emotional stability, wisdom, and purpose. Their value becomes rooted not in achievements, appearance, or approval, but in God’s unchanging truth. This article will guide you step-by-step on how to help your child understand their identity in Christ. What Is Identity? Identity is the understanding of who you are —your values, your beliefs, your sense of self, your purpose, your character, and the truth you build your life upon. It shapes how you see yourself, how you respond to challenges, and how you interact with the world. Identity answers questions like: ...