Comparison starts earlier than many parents realise. A child looks at a friend and quietly thinks, “She is better than me.” “He has more than me.” “They are smarter.” “I’m not good enough.” These words may sound small, but they carry heavy feelings. They sit quietly in a child’s heart and shape how they see themselves. Over time, these thoughts can grow into insecurity, fear, and self-doubt. Comparison quietly steals joy. It makes children feel less valuable, less confident, and less secure. A child who once laughed freely may become anxious. A child who once tried new things may begin to hold back. Slowly, they start measuring their worth by appearance, achievements, or approval from others. At Sue’s Imaginarium , we believe children were never meant to compare themselves. They were created to grow, to shine, and to walk confidently in who they are — rooted in faith , not competition. This article explains how faith helps children break free from comparison and how parents can gen...
Sue’s Imaginarium is an informal education blog focused on character education, social-emotional learning, and life skills for children and adolescents. It explores holistic, culturally grounded approaches to education that support emotional intelligence, responsibility, and global citizenship, complementing formal education systems and contributing to discussions on inclusive, sustainable learning worldwide.